fans may have been devastated by the fact that their characters weren't endgame on The Vampire Diaries
, but was it surprising? Not really. There were just too many obstacles that got in the way every single time they tried to give it a go. His vampiric identity. Katherine
Surprisingly, Stefan and Elena only broke up four times (basically every season they dated). However, many other incidents in the show also suggested why the pair weren't perfect for each other. Would you like some examples? Keep reading to see the 5 moments Elena should have dumped Stefan (& the 5 moments Stefan should have dumped her).